



This past Thursday I had the opportunity to Speak to a group of young teens and families at at a Christian based community outreach center in Pegram, TN just outside of Nashville. I typically do many of these speaking engagements per year. I don't think any has touched me the way this group and their energy has. From he moment I pulled into the parking lot I knew something was going to be different. The music was blasting from the building and I could see kids jumping around and the windows were lighting up in psychedelic colors. The community center isn't State or Federally funded. They are currently supported by six families. They have only been in their current location for 3 weeks and they are doing the most with the least. Over 65% of the children they deal with are in homes below the poverty level and yet these kids have such big dreams along with open and honest passion. Aside of providing tutoring, mentoring, and a safe haven for kids after school they also provides weekend meals. For so many young adults around the country the only nutritional and healthy food options they have are breakfast and lunch at school. This particular situation forced me to completely abandon and abort the script that I had planned as a lecture. As I sat in the back and observed something in my spirit led me to engage with them on a deeper more personal and intimate level. From my many trials and errors and hearing the story of professionals from all demographics I really came to understand and learn the dynamics of HOPE. I have come to understand that HOPE isn't easy and that hope comes with its own special set of demands that can easily overcome the average person. I find that as kids we hope and dream a lot and by the time most of us get older and scuffed by life we have no hope at all. What you get when you begin to Hope is the reality that your dreams may not come true. That means all of a sudden you are bombarded with fear, worry, doubt, and deep personal concern that you didn't have before. Therefore, most find it much more comfortable to not hope or have vision. I shared with them that anything worth having is worth going through something for. Hope isn't immediate. Its not the instant gratification as most of us in the technology and buzzed energy drink age have come accustomed to. Hope is something that you have to birth. In the process of Birthing hope and a dream their are long bouts of waiting and nursing a vision that nobody has seen and only you can feel. Then after months and maybe years of waiting and protecting that dream an opportunity presents itself where you have to deliver/labor the dream of yours. As we all know the labor and deliver process can be long, hard, and painful. And unfortunately, we sometimes lose people in the delivery process. Now that you've finally got a chance to see you Hope and dream delivered and in hand you are not through just yet. You soon will realize I have this new and beautiful thing and it doesn't come with a handbook and the rules and advice don't work in all situations. For the next few months and even years you find yourself stretch and extended from all ends. Your time isn't yours anymore and you are having many long and sleepless nights continuing to nurse and pamper your dream. In the short, I'm really trying to get you to understand that having a dream and hope takes time and much patience. You are going to have to have to understand that everything has its time and season and anything worth having has a maturing process that only makes it better with time.
In Closing, I encourage all that see this post to this blog to visit www.thewaycommunitycenter.org. I desperately ask that you share and contribute anything you can afford to give to this great place and great group of people who are feverishly doing all they can from the Grace of the hearts.